My friend want to get commited

Love has changed the bad havits of my friends.

Me: Hello! Meghu (Nick name of my friend) How come you call me at this early morning , and where were you from last six days?

Meghu:  Hey Kajal! Can we meet today ? I have something special to share and something to ask you.

Me: Ok sure! See you at 9:30 AM at our Purana Adda .. Bye ( our old gossiping place , behind a tea stall at railway platform).

 Hmm.. I was stubborned for few moments, because I had never saw him in such excited mood along with tension. He must be having something really special to tell me. Well I meet him and see what he told me.

Few days ago he has meet  with a girl named Varsha at a party, they has been  introduced to eachother by  their friends at the party.  Now everyday they both talk to eachother on phone and texts and they want to get commited. He also told me  that, he is trying to change himself , he have deleted all porn movies, even he is trying to quit smoking for Varsha (OMG : ) ) She also want to get commited but sometime she is pretending like not willing to get commited by saying that, they are from different castes. (Damn Girl) .

Is she still among the traditional minded people who differenciates castes  to get in relationships. Oh man! I was so confused by hearing all these and he was treating me like I am a love guru(Bakwas**).

After few minutes I told him that : “You guys don’t know much about each other, then why you guys are in rush(like you will miss the last metro) to get commited.  Take some time, get to know each other properly, meet with her, spend sometime then think about relationship. If she really will then, she must be waiting, otherwise she will leave you or if you feel anything bad you can leave her without hurting hurting her and without hurting yourself too. Atleast you will get some experience about relationship which is very essential, don’t worry you guys are just twenty and a have to lead a long journey of life ahead, so save up the feelings for ahead.”

I don’t know what is told him was helpful or not or negative, but at that moment whatever my heart told I just uttered it from my mouth. Its really hard to give a quick decession to a friend quickly . But I am happy to hear the he is trying to quit smoking and deleted porn videos. (Maa ka ladla sudhar gaya)