Today we focus more on earning and maintaining a standard life,
hence life of the present generation has become too much busy but apparently we
fail to make a balance between social and professional life. Believe me, every
weekend when I meet up with my friends I feel more like competition rather than
engaging in gossips. It’s the competition to express that who were busiest in
the entire week, I only feel the gossips like “I slept in the office yesterday,
I did not had time to take lunch, that brand didn’t appreciated our
presentation” and blah. I realized that
we forgot to gossips like the old days about holidays, party, girls etc. I
catch up with these buddies but still I feel the lack of joy of real togetherness.
I remember my childhood days when I used to go out to the
playground with my childhood friends and spent out our golden by playing around
the field, dancing and singing all around with joy. Soon I moved to city where
my entire childhood was spent by playing video games and watching cartoon
network on TV . I got a standard life, I got my childhood desire fulfilled but
I did not feel the joy that I used to had at my village with nature. Just few
years back when we used to go out for shopping at mall, brand outlets and we
used to had some sort of joy, togetherness with friends, family and peace of
mind after shopping but in present day we are engaged more in online shopping which
doesn’t give that peace and satisfaction of mind but still we are engaged with
it. Most of the people in this generation suffers with depression, hypertension
etc because of the lack of togetherness, where they can share their feelings
openly and face to face with others.
Togetherness is not hanging with friends and family on Facebook
and Skype , its is not sharing the festival wishes on Whats-app and other online
messenger , togetherness is coming up
and catching up together in real world where we can share our joy , sorrows and
happy moments together. Togetherness is something that reunites our lost happy
souls together. Nature plays a great
role to reunites us, remember the childhood when we use to build sand house at
beach with friends, mom and dad. That bunch of joy at school when we used to
plant trees together with our friends.
We know that we are so busy to make our life stable and
standard by working overtime, overnight
but to make our life more stable and healthy It is very important to
make a proper balance between our personal and professional life so that we can
find some space from our daily busy schedule and spend some moments with the
people you love and with the people who makes you laugh out loud. Believe me
you will lead a happy life.
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