On the recent survey ,
about 90 percent of our nation’s women feel unsafe to travel alone in
bus, train, metro, cab, auto etc , Even at broad daylight including
school/college going girls, working women, and
home maker excluding those who
travel in private car with driver. There are couple of questions arises in my
mind regarding Indian Systems, Indian Tradition and much more which are
connected with this issue but let it go now, it would be discussed later.
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We often says that India is a male dominant country but it
is not false that women are now at some
top positions and holding some top power in the nation, many of them are
cabinet ministers, chief ministers at different states, chief of some political
party and so on. But now will you still say that India is a male dominant
country and every crime against women are happening because of this? I hope your
answer would be to my side. If we flashback to some decades we see that women
were never safe , it’s a country where goddess are worshiped but people see
women with dirty view not only now but from ancient time . We only get live feed and get to know about
crimes and assaults around the nation because now media is developed but, at
that time women were used face these too but there were no media or developed
media to spread the news around. However
its not the point regarding the topic but I have added it.
Well… we always blame our government, police for every
molests, assaults, murders etc and we demand justice from government. But I ask for whom do we want
justice? For the victims or for the society or for our mentality which has been
filled with a heap of dirt? Let
our government kill all those buggers who commits such disgusting act, so
what? The crime will stop? No, if one
will quit then another one will begin, its our society which is filled with
some dirty scraps , where somebody cleanse it and others keep throwing dirt in
it. In most of the cases the culprits
mostly belongs to slums which lack of education, polite social behaviour
and few other are prestigious person of society who feel proud of their power
and status and think to do whatever they wish.
Apart from molests , murder etc there are more violence
things are done still now. Girl child are still being unwanted by many
families, when a mother is pregnant they check the baby inside mother’s womb is
a boy or girl and if they found its girl they kill her inside her mother’s womb
or just after birth. She dies without any name, without any identity Why? Just Because
she is a girl. Such an inhumanity. And
this is one of the strong reason of depleting sex ration at major part of this
country.
Many boys try to find out girls’ contact number and when
they succeed in finding they start to make prank calls, humiliating them with
abusive messages, dirty words and much more and then they spread the contact
numbers from once place to another, even I have found many boys have wrote girls’ cell phone number at bus, train , and
some public places , I don’t know why they do like this? If those bustards
think that they can achieve the girls’ heart by doing like these then I am
extremely sorry, they are wrong , more even their whole architecture of their
mind is wrong. If someone want to achieve a girl’s heart, mind then be a real
human being, be a real man. You need extreme courage and understanding to face
it and to win someone’s heart.
You are born and
brought into this beautiful world by a women, You love someone who is your
world is a women, and you would have your child by a women, so, when women is always
an important priority and important entity in everyone’s life, then why she always
have to face violences? Why she will lead a life of fear? For
what we call ourselves humans?Yes we
need soldiers inside every person not to fight at war, but to protect and
respect every women.
She may be someone’s
mother
She may be someone’s
daughter,
She may be someone’s
wife,
She may be someone’s
dream,
and she may be someone’s
life.
Feel her divinity in
form of a mother
Feel her blessings in form of a grandmother
Feel her care in form
of a sister
Feel her warmth in
form of a friend
Feel her faith ,
support in form of a lover
She is so sharing,
She is so melodious
She is so charming
She is a women
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