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Our life is like the waves of the ocean , sometime it goes
high, again it falls down , sometime it is stable and sometime there are unpredictable
high and low tides . our life is beautiful indeed but there are full of
uncertainty and we don’t know that what is ahead and what we have to grow
through . we are bounded with emotions , duty , responsibility and humanity ,
but apparently we meet a situation where we have to choose any one between duty , responsibility , humanity and emotions
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There were some moments when I was bounded with the same
duty , responsibility , emotions and humanity but I was confused with myself
that which one was right to choose and someone was right that everything
happens for a reason . Being in a distance
relationship we hold the hands from miles away , we breath in the same air and
share the same sky , but it needs a lots
of faith, determination , and love that inspires our body, mind and soul . I
have been in a long distance relationship from past few years , everything was
going well according to me, we use to meet twice or thrice a year . I was happy
more than anything else but sometime it was tough for us to control our
emotions and desires from miles away , we were not near so that when we want we
can meet and see each other, we cannot have our dearest one when we needed our
dearest person . But still everything
was going well until one day she suddenly told me that , she thinks she likes
someone else and she have feelings for him, it was a painful moment for both of
us, I was complete speechless and a part of me has been vanished at an once .
She was diverted because of my absence beside her, when she
needed me I was not there and lot of misunderstandings . I tried a lot make her
understand, realize the situations of long distance relationship and everything
that was possible by me but she wanted me to leave her. I tried to become
strong because I had to make an important decision of life , and I asked to myself “ What is love? Am I being selfish
? What if I lose her ?“ and someone from
inside me answered “ Love is when you care for each other , when you want to
see your partner happy , but if you love her then it doesn't mean that she will
love you back too , her heart may be pumping for someone else, you may think
that you love her most but someone else also can love her more than you do” . I loved her so much and I was ready to leave
her if she was happy with her decision But I
had a complete doubt that she was in tremendous misunderstanding , she was my
responsibility so, I could not let her go simply as I didn't know about the guy
, she may be going to the wrong person .
So I told her that I am not selfish for losing her, all I
want was her happiness , if she is not
happy with me and then she can leave me but first take break from me and hang
on the guy just to observe him , I didn't have any intention for comparison of
love , all I wanted was to make her realize what’s wrong and what’s right, let
her talk with her parents and friends , let her ask herself and feel her misunderstandings .
For few days I thought that I have lost her as there was no
calls and texts from her, but at one evening she called me apologized for all her misunderstandings . Till now she and me are together and she
loves me more than I do (honestly ) .
All I have learnt from this is nothing is perfect in this
world , we have adjust ourselves to make that perfect for us , it needs faith and
love that inspires our mind , body and soul .
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