Thoughts on my 28th Birthday

Though my birthday was two days ago I am still wondering, how in earth I am 28 years old? Time flies away so quickly and did not realized that I have grown up this much. I am one year more older by turning over a page of my life. This year I did not celebrate because of pandemic period and I did not want any gathering in my house.

 Well my journey of last 28 years was really great , specially this phase of life was involved with my childhood, teenage, school and college life, love, emotions, ambitions , confusions and so on. Upto this part life was great and I was happy doing nothing but everything, parents care, falling in love, intend of learning , where everything seems like nothing but a big game. I feel myself as the happiest person alive as I have everything I need, a house to stay, mom and dad , job to survive, and the girl I love as my wife, what else I need to be happy?

By turning a page of another year of my life I felt like I have entered into the real world where I have to face challenges at every corner but before moving ahead I would like to share some of the facts that I have experienced and realized in the past few years before its too late for you.

Family is Important

Family is our world which unite us, support and bind us together. It is the cozy nest where we all share our moments of joy and sorrow together. It is the family who cultivates good habits, good citizens and good value of life.  Spend time with your family as much you can, what you are experiencing at that point in time, or what your are feeling, they will always be there for you. There is no judgment, no questions, only pure acceptance and love.

Learn to celebrate every big and little achievement

Life is made up of small and little things, start to celebrate on your every little achievements because one day these little things will come up and make a grand achievement for your life. I don’t mean to through a grand bash what I mean celebrate by doing things you love , have a beer, make a day out and reward yourself , believe me it is one of the greatest way to keep motivated yourself .

Take care of yours body and health

One of the greatest gift we have is ourselves and our body, so it is very necessary to take care of our health.  Do a little workout and put out some sweat, eat healthy avoid junks especially if you are 25+ because food brings a great impact on our health. Consult a doctor if any specious symptoms occurs before it turning into health threat. Take care of your body as precious gift and don’t let it be a burden on yourself and your family, because a lots of people relay on you.

Fall in Love

Well there is no proper reason to fall in love but loving makes you a better person. Its makes the world go round and also strength to those. If you don’t have a reason to live then love someone who cares for you, whose eyes always seeks for your presence then you will sure get a reason to live again. I don’t have much words to explain this paragraph but yes do fall in love, it is mixture of love, pain, joy, sorrows, excitements and willing to do , yes it does bring good changes in life if everything is taken positively .

Do what you love

See this is a terrible advice but I have followed my heart and I am happy, 'do what you love' or 'love what you do' is not either the easy things, everything would be difficult, later most of the times things may seem easy at the beginning. Don't take your decision in haste, have little patience and then plunge into what you actually want to do. Doing this, you'd at least learn for yourself that for the first time in life, you have got no one to blame, but value your work because you have invested your time, concentration and energy to do and also you have followed your heart.

Appreciate little things in life

Like I told before life is made up of many little things and every small things matters a lot in our life, like calling your mom and wife after reaching office, chit chat with loved ones during lunch break, a call from a friend who is drunk at midnight and so on.

I realized this at my last office when I used to wish the lift man who was aged more than my dad , good morning , good evening, good night and had lunch? Just four words daily. Whenever I used to go in front of him, he used to smile out big and at last I asked him why you smile so happily whenever you see me? He replied: “Nobody gives me such respect the way you do”, I was wondering just few words daily can really make a person happy?