I feel ashamed to be known as an Indian man

This is my 200^th posts and I had planned to post something special for my readers but no, I could not get out myself from the headlines of everyday with the word “Rape”.  I pray to God “Oh God please not again” every time before I open the newspapers and sorry about some slang words that I am going to use ahead.

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Molested a five years old girl? Oh God! How can someone see a five year old child with such a dirty eye, rape is the matter of so far but I has happened. Still the worm inside such beasts did not move after the shame of 16^th December 2012.  Now don’t say its dress issue, because she is just five and don’t know properly how to wear her own dress. What do these beasts want from our society? Do they live only for sex? Why maximum number of rape cases belongs to India? There are much questions which are dwelling around my mind.

My one more point for the people who always blame government and police for not providing security to women and enough punishment for the guilty, yes governing system in our country is so poor and our government have lot of faults regarding these but, police can’t provide security 24 * 7 at our doorstep for our women . They are the people who stay with us in our society, talk with us friendly, we may don’t know it may be  our neighbours who see our women with a dirt view, you may don’t know it may be your driver who have been planning from years just to eat you, you may don’t know it may be the auto driver who would try to make use your lonely company, you may don’t know may be your own student will tease you someday very badly and so on that you can’t imagine. Its not the government’s fault it’s the heap of dirt inside people of our society. If we can’t clean these dirts then this type of heartless act will go on.

Another shocking incident I have heard last month may be in yahoo news I don’t remember the exact place, well a couple got married in a temple without knowing their parents and after a week they planned to register their marriage in court, they guy told his wife to wait at a place and he will pick her along with his friends for witness, then to the way to court the three guy along with her husband raped her badly, Now what to say about this incident? I am speechless. They are they people who are brought to this world through a womb and they kick on that womb. Does they supposed to be call a man? I don’t think so, they even don’t exists in borderline of humanity.  

Let me describe about Indian society, its no doubt that India have full of culture and traditions. But now India have educated uncivilized society. it’s a country where people worship many Goddess and take the name of many Goddess during problems like “hey durga mata, hey kali mata” but the same people when see a girl passing by them they will stare at her continuously like starving for food from a week. It’s the country where people do “Kanya Pujan” and the same people don’t like to give birth  a girl, sometimes people kill her inside her mother’s womb she die without a name, and some people feel her as a burden of family whenever she cross 18.   So , these are the dirts in our country INDIA.  But there are lot of people who are trying their best to support women, spare their lives for women I salute them.

Who should be called as a man?

Do you know what is the basic gift that every women deserve? It is “RESPECT” If you can’t respect a women then you can’t be called as a man. You have muscle power and penis so what? Are you a man? try to stand along with a women when she need use your muscles power to protect her and not to molest her. . Don’t find the opportunity to make use of her loneliness, better give her a company that give strength in her you may find her as your best friend. Don’t  use your dirty eyes to see her sizes and shapes, see her with your real eyes you may find love you may find a way to live. Don’t make use of her compelled situation, better help her to sort out of her situation, she may find a real man inside you. That is a real man, so, are you a man?

 

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